Just kid stuff...

Well, the post title says it all....it's just kid stuff! Somehow I've lost the Word document journal that I've been keeping for the kids since they were each born....I'm going CRAZY trying to figure out what happened to it, knowing that there used to be a copy of each journal on each computer, OOOOOOOOH....I'm SO MAD! More like completely heartbroken....so until, or if I ever discover its whereabouts I'm going to try and pick up kid journaling on the blog every now and again....I've already missed so much that I won't be able to recall since the last entry on their old journals...So SAD!!!

All about my Carter Grace

 Well miss Carter, you're now 3 1/2 yrs old and spunky as ever. You're super healthy and active, you're most content playing by yourself deep in some imaginative play...most of the time the characters in your head are acted out by stuffed animals or dolls from around the house...you LOVE to collect random things like rocks, beads, twigs and coins...I find your "collections" ALL over the house in ALL sorts of containers like your tea pot, dresser drawers and play purses....your favorite dress up right now is your crown and wand, and you LOVE to wear the cross necklace that Aunt Kathy gave you...you love it so much, that for safe keeping you put in in a tiny blue velvet bag with drawstrings, and hung it around the neck of our Jesus statuette that is on the book shelf in the living room....gee I can't think of a safer place for such a valuable possession either!!!

In just one year you've gone from being stone cold to people to being the most flittering, fluttering social butterfly, when we walk into church you start saying " Mom, I need to go say hi to Bishop"... "Mom I need to go say hi to Tyson"....and on and on and on.....you've warmed up to almost EVERYONE in the ward, and you LOVE to say hello to each of them....even when church is starting and we have to sit in our bench you wave your hand and yell to say hello to someone!!! Just tonight you walked right up to a cashier at Safeway and said "Hi, my name is Carter"....WOW, you're such a brave girl and really learning your manners and how to make new friends, you certainly never hesitate to try to engage other kids on the playground or at church!

Your talking better and better, and making use of full sentences, of which you've been doing for a while, right now we're working on saying things like "Yes I am" instead of "Yes I'm are"...you're generally very obedient and quick to help, your job is to always empty the silverware bin from the dishwasher and you do it well, I think it's time to start giving you more chores! Lately you've become quite sassy, and have learned words like stupid and hate...and of course those lovely phrases shut up, no way, leave me alone and you make me mad/sad...you've become very emotional in the last few months, I'm not sure if it's because Daddy is SO busy and you miss him, or if we're entering another stage of girly development (I should know right? Since I'm a girl and all!) But you baffle me! At times I think I must be emotionally scarring you for life they way your respond to things, half of the time your fake cries and pleas for time alone give you away as just that...a fake! However you are very tender hearted, you aim to please and unless you're super tired, you're very kind and loving....it's been hard watching you branch out socially with kids, and have to muddle through disagreements and having your feelings hurt, but we do our best to help you understand and give you more social tools to help you learn and grow...you're a great student at everything, and are always eager to learn new things!!!

In quite moments while we snuggle, especially while you sleep...I LOVE to just study your face, you're SO beautiful and growing and maturing SO fast...I am starting to see more of myself in you, it makes me feel somehow even more connected to you....I'm SO proud to be your mom...loving you and your siblings and raising you all with everything I have will be the greatest thing I ever do!

All about my Owen Boy AKA Owen Beast 

Oh my...where to begin! From the moment we found out you were a boy, clear up to now you continue to surprise us! I never realized how innate the differences between boys and girls are...granted you have your own unique personalities no matter gender, but here are a few classic "boy" things that you have down like a pro: 

Anger and aggression: from about 8 months on you've been angry at the world, angry at mom and dad and angry at your sister and yourself....you get angry when you're hungry, angry when you're tired, angry when you bonk, trip or fall, angry when Sis even walks towards you, angry when mom has to get something done, angry to get your shoes and clothes on, angry to get them taken off, you get angry when you can't have what you want, and angry when you can't get where you want to go....you hit to make your point, butt heads to play and prove more points, you throw balls at peoples faces (and have really good aim and a strong arm ta-boot!) You grab your sister and push and pull, you hit mom and dad when you're mad, you attach yourself to my pant leg and pull and tug until you get what you want....HOWEVER you seem to be able to keep all of this in check when we're at church, at someone else's house or when we're in public.

Climbing Daredevil: Although you started out slow, not crawling until you were 11 mo's old, and not walking until 17 mo's old...you've made up for lost time, you run, prance, dance and gallop ALL about the house...you climb on the back of the couch and stand strait up...yes you fall off and even get your big head wedged between the sliding glass door and the couch...you try to do all sorts of acrobatic moves that will probably leave you with brain damage and broken bones.....I FULLY expect you to be the child with a new broken limb each year...you've now mastered using a stool to get at what you want, as well as the baseboard heaters, the dolls house, play chairs and dining room chairs, you don't hesitate to climb on top of the table or anything ELSE for that matter, and I'm pretty sure once you figure it out you'll be in the top cupboards, and be the kid that finds the Christmas presents in the top of our closet every year!

The Italian Fiesta de Navidad

Well, it's no secret and probably one of my favorite things about my family and Christmas time...we're ITALIAN through and through, LOUD, PROUD, lovers of food, fun and family....every Christmas Eve we have a GINORMOUS pan of homemade lasagna, eat until we bust and then cuss and discuss as Italians will do....well, you can imagine my chagrin when I was told that this year we were having a Feliz Navidad...una fiesta grande...meaning instead of that precious lasagna we were going to take our hand at homemade tamales and enchiladas...everything homemade right down to the sauces and salsas...although I do delight in Mexican food....my heart was aching and crying out for Grandma's lasagna....(Insert weeping and wailing).....Whatever, I went along with it without too much stink because I was exhausted and in this terrible pregnant hormonal funk, that had transformed me into a slug.....

Well, it all came together, was absolutely delicious, and true to my family's tradition was a loud, proud, and fun evening full of duets and caroling, the excited chatter of little ones, present giving, game playing, good eating, pure exhaustion and joy!!!

 My sister Brook and Nephew Parker practiced duets and performed quite well!

 My brother in law Randall bringing in an old tradition from his family, a bag of gag gifts that Santa leaves on the porch to add to the evening fun! The children waited in eager patience!

 Santa knew Great Grandpa DePiazza (the giver of the Italian genes in the family!) Needed some new glasses....I swear, this fella gets funnier and funnier the older he gets...he wore them proudly through the evening (either that or he's so old, he just forgot they were on!)

 Santa knew Owen had recently discovered a love for trains!!!

 After a very late bedtime, not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse....and Santa came sneaking right in to Nana's house....

 He drank all of the milk, ate a cookie real quick, filled stockings with goodies, left presents... then SPLIT!!! 

 Oooogling with mommy, while waiting for Owen to wake up!

 Owen could have cared less about opening presents...he ALWAYS wakes up SUPER hungry, so all he wanted to do was eat....and after his foil and chocolate snack, he remained angry through opening presents until we could have breakfast!

 I think next year I'm not even going to buy my children presents...all of the Nana's and Papa's are always so generous....and know just what we need and want....THANK YOU!!!

 Such a good Daddy to play princess barbies!

 Well don't you fear, I did get my lasagna after all...Christmas day we went over to my Grandma's house and visited, ate delicious food, and played games!

Carter took a moment to try on Great Grandma D's reading glasses....quite the look I'd say!

 Owen LOVES Great Grandpa D, they laughed and played a lot together!!!

 Owen taking a turn, sitting on the stool to sing the "ABC's"...he can't really sing it all, but there's a few utterances that sound just right, and he does get pretty close to the tune!

 My favorite moment of the day....my kids getting to enjoy the soft cuddly lap of Great Grandma D, while watching cartoons....I wish I was still small enough to fit on her lap without breaking her! I did get some good hugs, but man I sure do miss those days when I was younger...Grandma's just make everything better!

Catching up is hard to do...

When I started this blog 3 years ago, I had such grand ideas that this was my ticket to finally getting into a regular routine of journaling....well clearly the "regular" part has been an epic fail...but I do treasure re-reading past posts... I forget that many of those memories are tucked back in my brain, and voila reading our family journal brings it all flooding back!!! 

I think sometimes I'm so bad at posting because I feel like nothing exciting or blog worthy goes on in our lives...being a tired pregnant mom, at home with 2 kids gets quite mundane...who wants to read about that right???...Well I've decided that I do, because all to fast these days will be gone, and filled with school schedules and homework, sports games, bratty teenagers, choir concerts, student driving, dating and much more that I'm sure we'll be completely unprepared for!!!

So for now, I'm quite content with remembering Owen as the silly 18 mo old stunt man, who tosses that big noggin of his around, falls off of the back of the couch regularly and turns the foot rest into a slide so he can perform neck snapping daring deeds as such..... 

 And I'm content to remember LONG winter days gone wrong with cabin fever...turned right by a silly 3 yr old, who thinks changing her clothes 5 times a day is SO much fun, who loves being "Dora Spiderman" the superhero who's lifelong goal is to terminate "Owen Beast", and who LOVES Ariel SO much, that even when it's snowing outside...has to wear her swimsuit and crown so she can be a princess who swims underwater....***Note the breath holding, fish lips to illustrate swimming underwater***

I'm content remembering my husband as a hard working student, who juggles the demands of family, school and work quite well, as a man WHO LOVES his family, and because of his school schedule actually gets to see his small children develop and grow with a frequency that many men in a traditional 9-5 schedule don't get...

 I'm content remembering LONG LONG days of being exhausted with early pregnancy, and feeling my body undergo construction MUCH earlier than I recall with the other two....someday my kids will ask me what it was like being pregnant with them, how I felt, what I craved...already I forget some specifics of my first just 4 short years ago...what's going to happen to those memories in ten or twenty years??? Makes me want to cry....I know some will get tucked away, and other memories will get replaced with new ones..but these early years are so precious to me, and when I'm old and gray and possibly all alone...I want EVERY SINGLE MEMORY to keep me company at night, to warm my heart and fill my soul with peace.

Watermelon Feet Make a Tasty Treat

Of course today has been hot, but thankfully hovering in the 80's rather than the 90's..well what's better than a little left over watermelon from lunch to cool a person of.....not much, except for maybe an Otter Pop!!!

Sometimes I wonder if my children are the only random quirky ones mucking about.....Carter decided her pink rocker needed to be in the kitchen of all places.....whatever I said....does it really matter....nope....just keepin the peace around here on a hot day is just about all a person can ask for!!!

 How Owen ended up as King of the Chair I don't know (I was busy sewing!)  But I look over to discover my children actually playing together sweetly, Carter the servant and Owen the big Kahuna....being hand fed left over watermelon (yikes, not looking forward to that diaper!) I just thought they looked cute, and were being so pleasant, that I should take a few pictures.......just after putting the camera down to make a quick trip to the loo.................I COME BACK TO FIND..............................

 THIS.......stinky feet that had been running barefoot outside, nestled on the fresh sweet fruit that I myself was coming back for a bite of......YUCK!!! Perhaps watermelon has the same soothing and cooling effect that cucumbers do.......maybe my daughter is trying to tell me that we need to invest in yet another fan.....regardless of her reasoning, I passed on the snack....however Owen couldn't resist......

 I really should have stopped him, but I couldn't stop laughing...and lets face it, probably not the most disgusting thing he's ever put in his mouth....or the most disgusting thing he ever will!!!!

 Oh, the mischief these two get into together!!! SOOOOO much more to come I'm sure....still haven't figured out who's going to be the usual ring leader....we shall see!!!!

"Ta, da da da da da da"

If read properly this post title (in your mind) should sound like "Ta Da" sung with the following "da's" as notes going up the scale, but said/sung SUPER fast!!! This is something Carter has done since she was about 2 ish....we don't know where she picked it up, but we LOVE it....we ALWAYS get a good chuckle from it! She did it TONS last summer over such little things that she was proud of.....she hasn't done it in a LONG time, but yesterday she let a nice loud and fast "Ta da da da da da da" rip.....I started laughing and looked around to lock eyes with John to share that "smiley eye, so in love with our daughter" look......and OH SO SAD, but not surprising....he wasn't anywhere to be found......we're coming up on the week mark of him working in Wyoming, and although we've settled in to life as the Three Musketeers....we still miss him A LOT....especially Carter.....yesterday ALL day she was SO emotional, missing daddy, wanting daddy.....

 So after bath time, I decided to pull an old trick that worked like a charm for another Daddy's girl, who although is 27 yrs old and has a precious 3 yr old daddy's girl daughter of her own...still misses her Pa somethin fierce, and just wants a nice big bear hug, or golden kisses once in a while!!! When I was young, while my Dad was out of town working he allowed me to choose one of his T-shirts to wear to bed as a night gown so I could feel close to him, it seemed to always work....Soooooo, I let Carter choose one of John's old work T-shirts to wear to bed...of course she chose the "Ice Cream" shirt, once it was pulled over her head she proudly, loudly and quickly exclaimed "Ta da da da da da da da!" SO wish I could have shared that moment with John!

 As most nights, we killed a little time being silly, giving Owen a mo-hawk....dancing on Mommy's bed to the alarm clock radio....making funny faces and silly noises....tickling and giggling, and singing into the fan (come on you know you all still love that distorted fan voice)!!! We just wait, wait, wait and wait some more for the house to cool down, and the sun to fade so that the little people will settle down and comfortably fall asleep!!!

 Owen was passing out kisses....he still does the open mouth slobber kiss, which grosses Carter out so she forces his mouth shut by pinching his jaw closed....thankfully Owen finds it to be a great game and doesn't complain!!! We're all surviving quite well with John out of town....the first day or so are emotionally rough, and hard to get back into daily routine....but everyone has leveled out now.....unfortunately just in time for him to make a quick appearance and upset the apple cart again (we wouldn't trade our precious time with him though!) It feels like Summer is dragging on with him gone, but maybe it's this crazy thick and sticky heat that makes everything move in slow motion.....at least when I look at a calendar I'm shocked to realize we only have 6 weeks left of our "Summer"....ahhh, the life of college students...everything is defined by when school starts and ends....at least we get Labor Day weekend right after school starts, perhaps a camping trip will be in order!!!

Mud Makeup Mug

Today was such a HOT day, if I hadn't already planned to take the kids to Lewiston to Home Depot and Costco, we would have found some water to splash in, but alas, a trip to the "Pizza Store" AKA Costco was promised and much anticipated by one little girl! When we got home Carter and our neighbor friend Halli played outside while I cleaned the front room, the girls popped in and out of the house for more popsicles...etc.....when you hear "Look, we have make up on"......be prepared to see this!

 The girls had made a bowl of mud, and were painting "makeup" on each others faces....to top it off, they decided a little chalk drawn on the body here and there was a nice touch too!!! I just had to laugh....and GROAN...because the kids had baths last night....but oh well, I remember having glorious summer days as such....you know it's been s fun day when there's a bathtub full of dirt, and a pile of laundry  waiting for Mom to deal with at the end of the day!

 Daddy had a chance to call us amid the mud makeup episode....can you see on that muddy little mug, the sad little girl who misses her daddy SO much....the first day or so after he leaves she carries on like normal...then she gets sassy, whiny and very emotional over EVERYTHING....day 3 she's finally able to verbalize that she misses Daddy, only wants Daddy, doesn't like Mommy...etc.......hopefully we'll make it over the hump soon.....only then to have it all upset again when he comes home, oh well such is life!

 OH, that muddy mug makes me want to cry, what a sad and serious little lady...

 Owen misses John when he's gone too, there's NO mistaking his excitement when he gets to hear Daddy's voice on the phone, his face lights up, he gets a big jaw dropped toothy grin, and actually....can you believe it....for a moment...he is silent.....he's SPEECHLESS!!!

Fortunately for me, he's a little less emotional, and carries on as normal every day....case in point....crazy little climbing man child! He's now mastered climbing on the couches, getting on and off trikes, etc...climbing up me (rock climbing style or monkey style...you know dig in the toes, cling and swing!)He's mastered falling off the couch and my bed with grace and minimal crying, he's mastered pulling sister's hair, kicking her, pushing her, throwing toys at her head and annoying her by turning the tv on and off....and thankfully.....sweetfully.....mercifully.....he's mastered giving Mamma kisses and hugs!!!!

Dear Daddy...

I suppose I should begin by explaining the title to this post "Dear Daddy..." well, John is off and running on another adventure....or I guess just continuing on the same unorganized and unpredictable path that employment as a research technician has taken him! After we got back from Boise, we waved goodbye as he left for a weeks worth of work in Bonner's Ferry (3 hrs north), well, that was short lived because the river was at flood stage and they couldn't accomplish what they needed, so we were surprised to find him home 3 days later (just as we were kinda gettin used to being the 3 Musketeers with him gone) 10 o'clock that night his phone rings, and he's set back in motion re-packing to go help another research project move along in Cascade (4 hrs south)...well, he's really gone this time for two solid weeks, up in the mountains where he doesn't get cell service, and they work such long hours that he literally has NO time to drive down the mountain to call us :( We're missing him something fierce, but I think he's missing us more; away from the comfort of home, the soft giggles and snuggles of little children, home cooked meals and the lovin companionship of a wife (the cold hard ground aint to invitin after a long day of work!)SOOOOOOO even though we can't talk now, we will get a chance, but I KNOW I'll forget SOOOO many adorable, wonderful and even frustrating things that he missed out on, that I normally would talk and laugh with him about, and counsel with him on....So I've decided every few days to post about the latest goings on at our house, SO when he's back he can read all about it and hopefully know how much he's loved and was missed!!!

Dear Daddy....yesterday we went for a walk downtown to the farmers market....we had fun peeking in the booths, smelling fresh flowers and visiting the rattlesnake at the gem shop, we wanted to watch him get fed, but they feed him on Fridays now because he gets stage fright on Saturdays with SO many people around.....we had a nice afternoon napping and reading books, before dinner we took Travis out to get your truck, and then went to get groceries, after dinner we had a nice long bath and then snuggled up on the camo mat to watch "Tooth Fairy 2" that we rented from the library, it was a funny movie that Mommy and Carter really liked....Owen just crawled around like a crazy man throwing toys at our heads!

Today we went to church, Carter wore her new pink flower dress that Grandma Debbie picked out for her, she looked like a princess! Tonight Carter and Owen got to play at Grandma Gail's so that Mommy could go to choir practice (what a nice little break for Mom!!!) These pictures are from tonight, we wanted to show you how good we were for Mommy when we brushed out teeth....can you see what good tooth brushers we are??? And what fun too!!!!

 Owen is getting better at actually brushing his teeth, and tried to do it just like Mom or Carter, he's quite proud of himself.... if you can't tell by the smirk on his face! Carter is really good at it too, so obedient and careful to make sure we can hear the "chh chhh shhh chhh shhh" sound while she brushes!!! (Can you hear her sweet little voice saying "Look at me Mommy....watch me Mommy"...?

 2 Posers....one silly as always(when posing) and one sitting quite properly to have his picture taken while he says " Eeeeee e e eee e"!!!

 Concentrating really hard......

 SO PROUD!!! "YEA, I'm a BIG BOY!"

 Not one to be left out....Sis insisted on her own personal mini photo shoot!!!

Everyone is starting to settle back down and adjusting to you being gone again (not that we like it, or that it's easy....just adjusting)...we hear Travis pull in in the truck....I know you're not there, but I still look anyways (I don't know if we can sell that thing, the soft rumble of that sweet ride pulling in puts me to peace, and starts me thinking on a lot of great memories!!!)....I really missed hearing your voice singing in sacrament today...I missed watching your sweet smile and eyes light up when I got into the car all primped and ready for church....I missed hearing a comment about the vanilla lotion I put on....and I missed cooking Sunday dinner for you, and lazily lounging about our house watching fishing movies while the children napped......it's glorious to put the kids to bed, but then I realize I'm really alone....I pace the house looking for something to occupy me, but nothing works, i'm exhausted and try to sleep but I just toss and turn...I make a nest out of pillows to try to feel snuggled that's not working either....sleeping on my side of the bed is just plain lonely, so I try the middle for a while, then end up on your side sniffing your scent on your pillow...but eventually end up back on my side because there's easier access to the bathroom.....and then it all starts over again...it's hot  and muggy and I want to open the window, but I feel vulnerable, so I opt for the fan to move the air around but then I get cold and don't have you to snuggle with to keep me warm.......I sleep with the phone by my bed in case of emergencies, but mainly because I hope and pray that you'll get a moments time to find cell service so you can call me....I just want to hear your voice....remember when we were engaged and apart how we would run out of things to talk about and I would just make you stay on the line so I could hear you breath.....SO many times I'd fall asleep just listening to you, feeling close to you.....I know it's silly but I just want to listen to you breathe...to know you're there....that you're alive and well....I know I don't really need to worry, but I have an odd panicked feeling, like I've been completely cut off from you without any say in the matter (well, that's kind of what happened, even though not really!)

I just want you to know that although I miss being able to share the kid duties with you...etc....there are more important and personal things that are being missed....it's funny, the only thing I can think of to say is from Jerry Maguire...... "You complete me"....what a cliche I know, but so true...you complete me physically, you complete me emotionally and you complete me spiritually....you are my PB and I am your J!!!! We love you and miss you!

Love your little family...The 3 Musketeers

Just a bit of this and that....

While John is up north working for the summer, my goal is to take at least one picture each day to keep Daddy connected and in the loop on the home front happenings.....Carter loves to wear her "Reindeer hat" just like Dad...(it's actually a pink and camouflage hat that has a cute little doe on it wearing high heels but hey, that's practically a reindeer right?!) And Owen of course hates feeling left out of the hat party, so Sis decided that he should wear Daddy's hat!!!

 Of course he thinks that he's SUPER HOT STUFF, and the FUNNIEST DUDE EVER!!! (this is pretty much his 24/7 attitude, except for when he's just being an angry little man!)

 When I'm in single mom mode I must craft to keep my sanity...today's project of choice....sewing a sturdy library bag for Carter (who by the way picked out the very cute popsicle  fabric, too bad the picture makes the straps look so off color...boo...oh well! It still needs some embellishments, but it holds our 50lbs worth of library books and movies like a champ!!!

 The monogram wreath is from a while ago, but every time I look at it I get a giddy smile...I don't know why but the simplicity and colors just make me happy!!!

Today Carter got to have some fun playing with her two fave BF'sF...she came home for a short break demanding that she get her "princess pack pack" what I gather from her jumbled 3 yr old excitement is that she and the two boys were playing that they were going to school....at random "bad guys" would jump out to  get them and then the kids would collectively apprehend the villains by using various martial arts moves.....let me tell you this three year old has got some serious MOVES! She practices daily on her brother yelling "HI-YAH" and fake karate chopping his head, leg, arm or any other body part that's available....I just have to laugh, I love to see the tom boy in her come out, all while she prances with her princess back pack and sleeping beauty ring on (of which she sleeps with nightly!) 

 She really wanted me to take her picture with her back pack on outside....these photos just about break my heart, she looks like she's headed out for her first day of school...NNNNNOOOOOOOOO!!!! I can't even bring myself to sign her up for preschool this year because I just want her home with me...which is where at least for this year I feel like she needs to be (she has two preschool years before kindergarten so maybe next year.......maybe....maybe not) 

On a funny note....today after briefly seeing the above mentioned friends (before getting to play with them) Carter hounded me for HOURS saying that she doesn't like me (I know she knows this makes me sad even though I understand she's just three....but boy does she like to push that button!) So she says "I don't like you mom....I just love my Dad John, Bekah and Twabis (that's Bekah and Travis our friends AKA the parents of her friends)....I just need to go to Twabis's house mom!) ....I told her that it makes me sad when she says that and that it's not kind....I said "It breaks Mommy's heart"....she immediately looks down at her chest and says "My heart's not broken....see, it's right here!" HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

Later, while drying her off after a bath, I must have scrubbed the towel on her too hard, she got all pouty faced, clutched her chest and said "Mom you just broke my heart, see...it really hurts me right here"....HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! TOO CUTE...except that a traditional female melt down with excessive water works followed.....some days I feel like she's thirteen instead of three....who knew the female and her mysterious hormonal swings started this young? Probably anyone who's ever raised a daughter!!!

While mother is sleeping.....

Sleep for me is rare these days, my allergies and asthma are in full attack mode..so usually by midnight I'm on the couch trying to spare my family from the persistent coughing and wheezing....my 3 year old likes to rise nice and early-usually she marches strait into our room and snuggles in bed between us...the mornings I'm not there...she comes searching....."Good morning mom" Is what I hear as she struts down the hall... "I have a gooooooddd rest mom" is the next phrase ALWAYS uttered....and I'm thinking to myself....I wish I had a good rest, and no it's not going to be a good morning...and why can't you be small enough to still cage in a crib like your brother (who I can hear in his room jumping in the crib and babbling to himself)....if I ignore him early in the morning, he usually goes back to sleep...Carter on the other hand is ready to start her day...so I turn on a movie, doze a little and try to keep an ear to her wandering about the house....

Well, the other morning, my ears head a soft clink clink....the sound of only ONE thing....Carter feeding Fish the fish of course....He must have looked REALLY hungry because she decided to dump the very FULL container of food ALL into the bowl (yay for mom who'd just changed the water the day before!)

 I felt like I was suffocating just watching Fish try to swim around in the murky water....it was SOOOO stanky and just SOOO ick!!! We learned a few lessons.....

1: Mom needs caffeine stocked in the pantry for mornings as such

2: Perhaps the fish food should be kept out of the 3 yr olds reach

3: We shall never use a live fish as incentive to potty train again (this fish just won't die!)

 On a more pleasant note, Owen is crawling like crazy, and learning to climb like a champ...I know you're questioning why this is pleasant...well at least he is finding something to do other than follow me around the house whining and crying and screaming like an angry little man!!!

He's ALL boy and loves to be rough and tumble, climbing is his favorite thing, he's now mastered getting up on the ottoman and the kids chairs....he's also mastered falling head first off of my bed and the couch....I knew that big hard head of his would come in handy someday!!! The only thing that will ruin his play is BIG SIS thinking she's the boss!

 The pterodactyl like screeching from Owen, after having to give up his spot on the changing table shelf while sister had a turn was deafening....he definitely has a voice and will let you know EXACTLY how he's feeling....quite often he and Carter get in tug of war matches over toys...the screech always comes first, followed by faint sounds of a bald head or face being slapped, followed by Carter's fake crying and screaming "No bud NO" as Owen has a death grip on her hair and a malicious glint in his eye like he's saying "Finally i'm big enough to get you back...buwahahaha!"

 He's finally starting to grow into that big head of his....he just gets more and more handsome!

 At least they do know how to play nice together..........SOMETIMES....for a few minutes at a time at least.....Carter decided they both needed their hoods on, they looked so nice playing together...that is until Sis pushed all of the magnets WAY up above Owen's head so he couldn't touch them and play too.....OH it's only the beginning...MANY years to go, and more children to add eventually to the chaos of sibling fun..er...uh.......sibling rivalry might be more like it!